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When Everyone Needs Me at Once
When everyone needs me at once, sensory overload can make it hard to think. Once my body settles, the guilt arrives—and I try to show my kids what it means to be human.
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When everyone needs me at once, sensory overload can make it hard to think. Once my body settles, the guilt arrives—and I try to show my kids what it means to be human.
About Mara Vale
You should not have to prove you are struggling to deserve understanding.
Mara Vale is an autistic writer exploring late diagnosis, masking, burnout, relationships, and the invisible effort behind appearing “fine.”
She created Quietly Overwhelmed to put words to experiences that are often misunderstood—and to help other autistic adults feel less alone.
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